I wonder what family meals were like in Isaac and Rebekah’s house. Isaac favored one son, Esau. Rebekah favored the other, Jacob. There was, I would imagine, palpable tension between their children. On one occasion Esau returned home after hunting for game. He was terribly hungry. Jacob refused to give him some of the lentil stew he was preparing until Esau agreed to sell him his birthright. Esau was so hungry that he spurned his birthright? Jacob was so devious that he took advantage of his brother’s weakness? Where was Rebekah while her children fought? Where was Isaac? On Thanksgiving we gather with family and friends. In every gathering there are similar tensions. There might be the aunt who always asks too many personal questions. There could be the distant cousin who appears to sit in judgment of everyone else. Take comfort from the Torah. Tensions were part and parcel of every family, even our first Jewish family. In this week’s Torah portion we see how
"From the place where we are right flowers will never grow in the spring." Yehuda Amichai